In-person therapy and counselling in Thame, Oxford and Buckinghamshire, and online for London

Sometimes life brings more than we can manage alone: a relationship ending, a loss, a big change, or a feeling of being stuck that won't shift. Talking with someone outside your everyday life can help you make sense of it and find a way forward.

UKCP-registered psychotherapist · In person or online

Dr Paula Byrne, smiling

Hello, I'm Paula

I'm a UKCP-registered psychotherapist. I work mainly with adults and young people one to one, and also with couples and families when it helps to work through things together.

I'm also a bestselling biographer and the founder of ReLit: The Bibliotherapy Foundation. If it would help, I sometimes suggest a book or poem to accompany our work together.

Most of the people I see come on their own. Because I'm also trained in couples and family therapy, I pay attention to the relationships around you: how they affect you, and how you might change them. If it would help, a partner or family member can join some sessions, but that's always your choice.

More about me and how I work

What I can help with

People come to therapy for all sorts of reasons. These are some of the things I often work with.

  • Anxiety and stress
  • Loneliness
  • Relationship difficulties
  • Separation and divorce
  • Depression
  • Trauma (EMDR)
  • Miscarriage and fertility loss
  • Menopause
  • Parenting pressures
  • Empty nest and life transitions
  • Chronic illness
  • Bereavement and loss

Where I work

Choose whatever suits you. Many people mix in-person and online sessions.

Thame

A quiet, discreet room in the centre of the lovely market town of Thame, easy to reach from across Buckinghamshire.

Therapy in Thame

Oxford

A quiet, discreet room in Summertown, North Oxford.

Therapy in Oxford

Online

Secure video sessions from your home, for people across London, the Chilterns and beyond. In-person therapy in your home is occasionally possible.

Online therapy

Getting started

  1. Get in touchSend a short message or call. You don't need to explain everything.
  2. Free 15-minute callAsk questions, tell me a little about what's happening, and see if we're a good fit.
  3. First sessionWe'll agree together how often to meet and what you'd like to focus on.

Qualifications

  • PhD, University of Liverpool
  • MA in Marriage & Family Therapy, Arizona State University
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Certified EMDR practitioner
  • UKCP registered, College of Family, Couple and Systemic Psychotherapy (no. 2011191708)

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Taking the first step

Reaching out can feel like the hardest part. A free, no-obligation call is a gentle way to see if working together feels right.

Book a free 15-minute call

Or call 01787 321874 · email drpaulabyrne@gmail.com